this film was absolutely incredible! sooo interesting, and amazing how much you feel for each of the four guys.  really really good - watch it!

@Don Brennecke

Geezus man get a life.

Your bilge filled commentary was the worst drivel I’ve read in months.  Someone needs to delete that comment.  But no one manages their comments anymore obviously.

watch it, very interesting and you can learn from it.

It was very interesting and informative—until the Latin man tried to kill his father, then the commercial took over (ALL WERE TERRIBLY LOUD!!!) and stalled everything NOTHING worked until I finally had to hit the replay button—which DID work and it all started over and wouldn’t let me fast forward, so I had to watch it all over, and, not being either gay or overly religious, it all felt like something I had no need or desire for.  Then, It seemed the ultra religious right was going to win out over the gay guy—a fate worse than the Hell ultra conservatives pronounce on sinners-- many times over—that was the biggest crime of the Bush Admin (Idi Amin was less cruel in that regard!!  My blind passion against all this foregoing is the lesson of this great film… no unchecked passion is safe OR sane.
I love the movie now and will highly recommend it.

The too loud music behind the manikins speaking in a foreign tongue was brutally distracting-- so much so I couldn’t focus on the English subtitles AND MISSED A LOT OF THE DIALOG THROUGHOUT.  This happened way too often so I missed so much I resent movie sound men (ASCs?)—I’ve HATED that all my life --never being able to hear dialogue because the overly loud background music drowns ALL OF IT OUT.  Consequently I can’t understand anyone wanting the hated soundtracks to movies.  Why does this happen so consistently??  Many other complain about it also.
Otherwise I love the movie and will recommend it as well as learn from it and help others in that regard --- and continue to rail against those idiots who won’t let their left-handed children be left-handed, nor let gays be gays, the way Nature made and meant them to be.  Just like EVERY war having to be for “religious” reasons—it’s ridiculous!!  Seven months of intense therapy after being raped by a gay man (who got me drunk first--easy to do at the time) then took away ALL of my self-esteem, all my macho pride as a great athlete (why I was targeted), all my natural feelings of being what I worked so hard to be— someone others could admire.  No longer.  I believed myself tainted/ruined/defiled and now homosexual—anything but a MAN!  The therapy worked and I no longer vomit when I see an effeminate man prancing into a room, and no longer feel ANY kind of anger toward gays—whom I support these days and have gay friends who respect my being straight as well.
Thanks for giving me a venue to vent these old worthless feelings once more.

This was an awesome movie. It said so much in telling the stories of three lives. We all have many paths and it shows that if we are willing to learn from our choices and experiences along the path we will come to much the same conclusions.We all struggle to understand what we see ,feel and experience.We all play that struggle out in different ways.

This is an amazing fantastic movie. I loved it so much I bought it.