6 (and a half) Secrets of Love

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• Posted 12/01/10 by Blake
  For the record... Grace is a WHO RE! This is a great video with a lot of useful information
• Posted 11/27/10 by Shean
  I guess my observation about this video is that everything makes sense and sounds very useful and applicable until they start splitting things into "boy" or "girl". In my experience, gender traits have become nearly indistinguishable, and I've found that both sides of any partnership need equal room to be themselves, and every relationship has different ideas of whats needed. Trying to pin a 'nature' on men or women is limiting and fails to recognize the full human experience. Its the 21st century and, although these two people seem well educated in matters of romance, they have an old fashioned way of looking at things that simply doesn't apply in todays American culture - I'd suggest checking up on those scientific references, their info is pretty out-dated
• Posted 11/26/10 by Grace
  In my younger days I've acted as an opportunist romper, taking on a hunk here or there just because I couldnt resist, even when I was in the most satisfying of relationships. I had multiple sexual encounters behind my man's back, not because I didnt love him or was unhappy, but because I was in the wrong (or right??) place at the wrong time. Girls need excitement too, and I don't think its fair to mislead men to think otherwise. Sometimes women simply crave a bit of variety. If men aren't aware of this fact, its more difficult for them to deal with infidelity and work through it. If a women cheats on you, its not always going to mean she's unsatisfied with you or emotionally unhappy with you, and you shouldnt give up on yourself or your bond with her. But you should, however, confront her in matters of self-control, and the importance of boundaries/trust. I think this short film ignores that, but other than that it contains a lot of very true and helpful advice! Oh, and women dont need to give up independence, and men dont have to give up fun! My partner and I know this first-hand. Love doesnt have to be a trap it can be empowering you just have to embrace it. And dont forget, mutual TRUST is definitely the most liberating aspect in any partnership.
• Posted 11/26/10 by Sam
  A lot of legitimate advice was offered in this film, but I don't think they gave much helpful information in the realm of infidelity. I believe, also, their interpretation of female vs male infidelity is a bit out-dated haha
• Posted 07/10/10 by Fred
  John Grey only has MAIL ORDER DEGREES! A self make EXPERT! YOU too can become an EXPERT. PS: In fact I thin penn and teller did a special on him.
• Posted 04/06/10 by bellagatta
  This film is Educational for people who have a hard time connecting or a guide for a smooth relationship. it all make sense. It's all about respect for each other. That's what love is all about. Caring for each other= love. All about commitment+ caring+ respect = real love . Nice to grow old together. Ron & Glenn have a beautiful family. Their dreams & hopes have been answered. Let your partner be who they are it makes life and romance more interesting. Love is in the air!
• Posted 12/06/09 by Cookie
  Very true, speaking from personal experience. Having been through a bad relationship/marriage and now having met a wonderful man whom I love and respect; he loves and respects me and we communicate. This film is definitely worth watching. Something I will share with my 18 year-old daughter.
• Posted 12/04/09 by Beans
  Wind why are you so negative about this film. Pretty much what they are saying is true. Besides women knowing how to be with a man AND men knowing how to be with a woman, learning to love them deeply, this film encompasses the nature of love, physically, emotionally, and mentally. As they were saying in the film, love ebbs and flows and with that one must give and take. But again, the comment about women and what they have to do is right on the ball and I'm a 19 year old female college student. To this, it is important for a woman to respect herself and know what she wants, and not to allow herself to be disrespected and/or mistreated. There's nothing wrong with being "passive, nurturing, forgiving" in a relationship, with both men and women, to me, it's a part of loving that person and that love growing stronger.
• Posted 11/14/09 by wind
  what a disgusting, misogynist film, full of excuses for men's piggish behavior and encouraging women, as usual, to keep on being passive, nurturing, forgiving and slaves to the little roles men benefit from forcing them into. the message is men can do whatever they want and women are the ones who must always accommodate. women are supposed to pretty up and act like they need protection and go through all kinds of machinations just to keep "their man," who doesn't have to do thing one besides be himself. when will women be able to be themselves without all this constant pressure from "therapists" like these and from societal and legal conventions??? men have to be respected but women don't??? and this from, supposedly, a respected, female psychologist? she seems to have spent all her energy figuring men out and doesn't give a #### about figuring women out or asking that men try to figure women out, too??? even the "image" i now have to type in below just in order to get my comment posted is "husband 52." this country has no hope.
• Posted 09/12/09 by Julie Lee
  This is a totally cute movie, I wanted to take notes. Great advice from the therapists...the kids at the end are adorable.